ADVANTAGES OF DATING AN OLDER WOMAN!

ADVANTAGES OF DATING AN OLDER WOMAN!

She is a lady who prefers dating someone younger so as to attain maximum pleasure,she has an impeccable sense of fashion, flawless skin and ... 16:59

She is a lady who prefers dating someone younger so as to attain maximum pleasure,she has an impeccable sense of fashion, flawless skin and voluptuous curves thanks to the copious resources she uses in taking care of her body. She radiates success and great vitality, the only thing betraying her true age are the eyes. They look wiser, devious and devoid of any innocence.The society openly demonizes this kind of women terming them as despicable but are they really that bad?.Well i dont think so.

sugar mummies(Cougars) are on the prowl, enticing younger men with their obscene wealth in exchange for companionship. Most times she is recently divorced or widowed therefore seeking validation that she is still sexy and what’s a better way of doing that than hitching an effervescent young lover? The following are  advantages of dating an older woman!

 1. Most understanding

Dating a young lady is exhilarating until she turns 24! Something strange happens to ladies when they clock this age. The funky girl you once knew turns into a complete stranger overnight. A lass who used to party Monday to Friday suddenly tones it down. She gets serious with her career, becomes religious or develops a strong affinity for babies yet months before she couldn’t stand any. You choose to ignore this until she wakes you up in the middle of the night with a staid look on her face.Most young ladies just want to get married,they dont understand what young men really want.In no time they will begin to say things like  

 “Promise me we will get married and have kids!"
 “I’m 24 now & not becoming any younger. I need to know whether you are serious with me.

You solemnly swear to stick by her to the end of time however things will never be the same again. She develops great expectations and embarks on a mission to transform you into her dream husband and father to her future kids.

A Cougar has been married before, had a few kids and probably a failed marriage so the last thing she wants is a wedding. She is therefore a lot more understanding, rarely pressures you for a lifetime commitment in fact encourages you to live wild and free.

2. showcases high levels of maturity

A cougar won’t bother you with unnecessary female trivialities. She won’t get mad at you for forgetting your anniversary or sending her birthday wishes at 9am instead of midnight. She understands that as a man you need time alone consequently giving you space. Older women are assertive and display high levels of maturity. She knows exactly what she wants and goes after it.  She doesn’t play games with you like getting pregnant to hold you hostage in the relationship.

Having lived quite a while they approach relationship problems a lot more soberly.  The emphasis would be on how to solve the problem not engage in a blame game. A sugar mummy is smart enough to sometimes influence you to becoming better without throwing tantrums or issuing ultimatums.  An older lover is easier to deal with since you both clearly know what you gain from the relationship. Should it fail to work you both walk away without creating much fuss.

3. Patronage

Being a young man in such a competitive world isn’t easy since a lady with same qualifications would most likely be hired over you for most jobs. Having an older lover who is at the prime of her career can be a game changer. You get to have unfettered access to her close friends and valuable contacts. If you use this opportunity well then you can easily clinch a rewarding contract and tap into her vast pool of experts for help in realizing an idea. If you both work in the same industry then she can play god, pulling strings so you scale the career ladder much faster.older ladies are well connected and in this type of competitive world like ours you need connections to survive and stand out.

For a young entrepreneur or an upcoming artiste this is a once in a lifetime bonanza you just cannot let go to waste. Starting out is tough but when you have her patronage fewer doors would be slammed at your face giving you a competitive advantage. You can use this opportunity to create a viable business so in the event you fall out of favor you will have a soft landing.

4. Life Experience

How many young girls can you have a honest and great conversation with? Very few indeed! Having gone through the whole transition from childhood to adulthood a cougar’s insight towards life is quite different. Tapping into her rich life experience you can learn from her mistakes, shatter parochial dogmas thus attaining self-actualization in no time. Interacting with her, one is bound to broaden their scope of thinking and learn how to deal with issues like loss, love and parenthood.

Ignited by a sense of adventure and bankrolled by her money you will get a taste of some refine things other people your age never get to experience. This means you will get to visit interesting places, dine in exotic restaurants and enjoy tons of privileges thanks to your association with her. Cougars are passionate lovers who readily teach you the art making you a better lover in addition to boosting your ego.

 5. Financial gain

Financial gain is the greatest motivation and the main reason most young men are  interested in dating a sugar mummy. This is because they are munificent to a fault, showering one with expensive gifts and favors. An easy life is tempting for any young professional yet to amass a sizeable fortune of their own. The relationship is simply a business transaction. You get to fulfill all her sexual fantasies, offer companionship and sometimes show a bit of loyalty

This is far from easy. Most would give you a car registered to them and rent you a nice apartment but in the event you fall out the car is repossessed and you kicked out of the place.  In addition you have to be careful so that both your families don’t find out about the relationship and stand disapproving so be careful whenever you engage in public display affection.

On the brighter side you can use her money to acquire every tech-gadget you fancy, afford high-end fashion and still have some left to awe impressionable younger women. It feels good to have someone else cater for most of your financial needs once in a while. The gifted charmers can use their talents to swindle the old lady of her fortunes however it’s a dangerous game woven in a rich tapestry of betrayal which often ends up with one party dead.

6.The thrill

Like the forbidden fruit, romantic relationships between young men and older women a greatly shun upon by the society making them even more attractive. Picture this, the tough boss that everyone else in the office is scared of also happens to be your secret lover. She is tough on you in the office only to do kinky stuff on you later in the night and only your boys know about it. Isn’t that exciting?

Cougars have insatiable sexual urges and their prowess at the sack cannot be overstated. Since they have learnt to accept and live with their less appealing features they are confident about their bodies thus have no qualms fulfilling your wildest fetish which most young ladies wouldn’t. For a young man, having mind blowing sex without stringent commitment is the best thing after the invention of a microwave.

Guys, have you ever had a fling with an older woman? How would you compare that to dating younger women?